The Secret to being Instantly Liked in Public Speaking.
A few years ago, I walked into a room full of strangers. I was the guest speaker, and within the first five minutes, I could tell—some people were leaning in, engaged, smiling… while others? Scrolling through their phones, staring at the ceiling, looking half-asleep. I knew I had to win them over—fast. So, I did three simple things. By the end of my talk, the same people who looked uninterested at first were nodding along, laughing, and even stayed back to chat with me. Here’s what I did: Mirroring – The Subtle Superpower Have you ever felt an instant connection with someone like you’ve known them forever? Chances are, they were subtly mirroring you—your tone, gestures, and energy. When I noticed that some people were reserved while others were more animated, I adjusted my delivery. I matched their energy, made my tone inviting, and boom—they started warming up to me. Lesson: People like people who are like them. Mirror your audience, and they’ll feel an instant connection. Say Their N...