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The Secret to being Instantly Liked in Public Speaking.

A few years ago, I walked into a room full of strangers. I was the guest speaker, and within the first five minutes, I could tell—some people were leaning in, engaged, smiling… while others? Scrolling through their phones, staring at the ceiling, looking half-asleep. I knew I had to win them over—fast. So, I did three simple things. By the end of my talk, the same people who looked uninterested at first were nodding along, laughing, and even stayed back to chat with me. Here’s what I did: Mirroring – The Subtle Superpower Have you ever felt an instant connection with someone like you’ve known them forever? Chances are, they were subtly mirroring you—your tone, gestures, and energy. When I noticed that some people were reserved while others were more animated, I adjusted my delivery. I matched their energy, made my tone inviting, and boom—they started warming up to me. Lesson: People like people who are like them. Mirror your audience, and they’ll feel an instant connection. Say Their N...

Finding Your Voice: The Magic of Speaking Up and Owning Your Words.

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  Hey there, phenomenal reader! 👋 First off, can we take a moment to appreciate how time flies? It feels like just yesterday I was welcoming you to my little corner of the internet, and here we are again. If you’re new—welcome aboard! If you’ve been here before, you already know how much I appreciate your presence. Now, let’s get cozy and dive right in. The Journey Continues: Finding Your Voice & Owning It! Remember my student, Miss T.? (If not, go ahead and check out my last post—I’ll wait. 😉) She went from whispering in class to confidently delivering speeches. Her story is proof that growth happens when we step outside our comfort zones. But guess what? The journey doesn’t stop there Communication is a Lifelong Adventure Here’s something I’ve learned: No matter how experienced we get, there’s always room for improvement (and the occasional embarrassing slip-up—trust me, I have plenty!). Take me, for instance. Just last week, I was on a Zoom call, passionately explaining a ...